ImageSkirts of Angels (C) 2005 by Debi Bradford


“Religion is for people who are afraid to go to hell. 

Spirituality is for people who have already been there.”

Bonnie Raitt


I love Bonnie Raitt; her music, her spirit, her Life wisdom, her strength.  Her words resonate with me this morning.  Everyone has something going on in their lives.  Cancer, mental anguish, physical challenges, family difficulties, terrible work environment, something.  One affliction may be more awful than another but unless you are RIGHT THERE IN THEIR SPACE, one cannot judge, one cannot pooh-pooh their condition. 

Enter empathy.  My goal in Life, daily, is to be empathetic.  Listen to the other person.  Open my heart.  LISTEN and actually hear them.  Imagine myself in their place.  Do not add to their angst but flow with them like water in a rocky brook. 

Not just people but also the animals, Earth’s creatures, and the Earth herself.  Be empathetic to the trees and water.  FEEL the Earth.  Literally lie down on her surface and caress her grasses, grab hands full of soil and smell it, cup water in your hands and let it spill back to its source.  Release creatures from your homes – do not automatically kill a snake or spider for they, too, have their purpose on this Earth.  Be empathetic.  Be more than yourself.  This is my goal. 

There are people here in the blogging world who have so much knowledge.  I am forever grateful for this place, this space, within which I learn so much.  Thank you all for sharing so much of yourselves here. 


About the photo:  2005 at Wheeler Lake, North Alabama.  A wide spot along the Tennessee River where I lived at that time.   I had just gotten my new Canon 20D and was busy exploring the world of digital photography.  My home office overlooked the river.  Always an early riser I was up well before dawn.  I couldn’t see anything for the fog but once the sun came out and began to burn it off I witnessed swirls of cotton candy lift up off the water and dance into the sky.  Naturally, I went out to try my hand at capturing what I was seeing but couldn’t imagine the images turning out like they did.  I believe something else guided my hand that day for this, my favorite image of the day, defines my Spirituality.  This is my  Column of Light.


  1. Very nice and heartfelt post. If only, if only. I am glad there are caring and empathetic people like you in this world. Only if there were more. The animals are at our mercy, and ironically, we pick the ones to feel sorry for, not because they are more important to the earth, but many times they meet the cute factor. No animal, bird or insect is more important when each has their purpose on this planet. Only too late do we find out the importance. It makes us not quite as knowing as we think.

    1. Truer words were never spoken. Thank you for visiting me and leaving your own heartfelt post. I’ll be thinking about the swan battle and sending some positive energy your way.

    2. Indeed, indeed. Sigh. However there are a lot like us out there. We must be vigilant and spread the word. As much as possible, anyway. Take care!

  2. You are exploring such a deep, heartfelt part of yourself in these recent posts. Inspiring, my soul friend. I am so happy you are blogging again. You have so much to share, not the least of which is your amazing photography.

    1. Such kindness, my soul friend. I’ve you to thank for kick-starting my creative this time. Your friendship has been key, ya know. Thanks so much!

  3. Incredible photo…and I LOVE LOVE LOVE Bonnie Raitt!! Have seen her several times in concert…she is a beautiful soul traveling in this earth!! 🙂

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